infra: explicitly disable checks for pylint

finally tackled enough we can assume checks *should* run except for
those we opt out of.  and those can be cleaned up too hopefully but
i'm out of gas for the moment

.pylintrc

@@ -1,35 +1,14 @@
 # -*- mode: conf; -*-
 
 [MESSAGES CONTROL]
-disable=all
-enable=abstract-method,
-        anomalous-backslash-in-string,
-        assignment-from-no-return,
-        assignment-from-none,
-        bare-except,
-        broad-exception-caught,
-        consider-using-f-string,
-        consider-using-dict-comprehension,
-        consider-using-set-comprehension,
-        cyclic-import,
-        dangerous-default-value,
-        disallowed-name,
-        duplicate-code,
-        empty-docstring,
-        inconsistent-return-statements,
-        invalid-name,
-        line-too-long,
-        missing-function-docstring,
-        missing-module-docstring,
-        no-else-return,
-        no-self-argument,
-        no-member,
-        possibly-used-before-assignment,
-        redefined-argument-from-local,
-        redefined-outer-name,
-        too-few-public-methods,
-        trailing-whitespace,
-        unspecified-encoding,
-        unused-argument,
-        unused-import,
-        wrong-import-order,
+disable=
+        attribute-defined-outside-init,
+        fixme,
+        import-outside-toplevel,
+        too-many-arguments,
+        too-many-branches,
+        too-many-instance-attributes,
+        too-many-lines,
+        too-many-locals,
+        too-many-positional-arguments,
+        too-many-public-methods,